realization

it's funny to think that some people has the insecurity in themselves despite the qualities that they themselves have..

some of them are beautiful..

some of them are smart..

some of them are admirable..

..and yet, they can't find the contentment that their heart desires.

why is it so??

according to Abraham Maslow in his THEORY OF HIERARCHY OF NEEDS, people cannot find contentment and motivation to things they can easily get..

things that are hard to attain motivates people and moves people to struve for more..

perhaps, when things become unattainable, people become frustrated and diverts their attention to other people who has the qualities that they've been aspiring for..

but, why don't we look on the brighter side of it! maybe we don't have everything but others don't have everthing as well..

we have qualities ,, great qualities that makes us unique individuals.. so let us be grateful!

hhaaaYYY!!

the semestral break has already ended and yet I still don't have any good experience!! wahehe!!

well well! I just experienced a very annoying war with the world!! haha!! my family has been reprimanding me of my excessive texting!! what can I say!! my load has been postpaid, so text to the max!! haha!! and what the heck!! they texted my friend(textmate) and told him nasty things!! that's so embarassing!! I was so apologetic!!!

he is really nothing, he's just my friend. it's just companionship.. that's why I am not guilty!! I just don't like it that they are watching over me too much that it makes me feel imprisoned..

i abide with the rules that's why I think they should have to let me do things and sort them out on my own.. I am not saying that they should not be concerned 'bout me!! I just want to have a moment that's mine and learn things from my own mistakes.. that's all =)

MY KIND OF GUY!!

I want a guy who’ll look straight into my eyes and will tell me he loves me a thousand t

I want a guy who would hug me as if nobody can harm me and nobody can take me away from him…

I want a guy who would want to stand and enjoy viewing fireworks with me…

I want a guy who would bring me wonderful places I’ve never been….

I want a guy who’ll wrap his hands around me and will make me feel alright when I’m blue…
I want u guy who will totally love just as I am…

I want a guy who would be more than willing to meet my clan...

I want a guy whom I could learn something WORTHWLILE…

I want a guy who’ll always make me feel special…

I want a guy who would rather hurt me than lie to me…

I want a guy who’s willing to listen to my inhibitions, animosities and even to my wildest stories...

I want a guy who would never hurt me in every which way he can…

I want a guy who may dissent with my convictions but would still understand…

I want a guy who could see things that even I could not see and appreciate for MYSELF…

I want a guy who take care of me and would make feel secured and protected…

I want a guy who would respect me and would never ask me to do the things we are not ought to do…

I want a guy who teach me the real essence of life...

education

EDUCATION

Education … the only thing you can’t defray
The very thing to always help us come what may
One that keeps this community a vast array
And used to guide us in our lives from day to day

There are lots of subtle people who become leader
Who always act as efficient public server
Who have dignity to fight those who tend to hamper
Who always do productive services to deliver

It’s also a reason why nice guys turn into a harpy
Instead of abolishing the community’s agony
And just help for the betterment and progress of the country
They do tend to waste time and use their wit pretty badly

Each and every one of us should have appraisal
We’re having this privilege to logical
To earn knowledge; advanced and technological
Let us not set it aside as if it’s not vital

Education is not really gained only inside the university
It is the mere learning from our everyday lessons of reality
We don’t need to go to a formal school for us to be called real gentry
Just make sure you grow as a person to survive this life of adversity….

FRANK - adj. direct; straightforward; sincere; undisguised

FRANK - adj. direct; straightforward; sincere; undisguised

There are lots of people who say they’re frank. They tell anything what’s on their mind. If they don’t like the person, they never take chances of mingling with that others or as they say “being plastic”.
But is being plastic good?
On western countries, take for example United States of America , one of their main traits is being frank……a very contrasting one with that of the Filipinos. Filipinos are always considerate of what others might feel on whatever they will say. With them, being frank is telling others what think and feel in a very subtle and diplomatic way. For them, saying things in inconsiderate way is being uneducated. They think of expressing things as an action that should be civilized, ‘cause if not, it goes without saying that you’re tactless or telling things without consideration of others feelings.
Otherwise, this trait of the Filipinos has its translation of “Pakikitungo” or “Pakikipagkapwa-tao”. It is the act being civil. Whether we don’t like the person doesn’t mean we have a valid basis to be nasty with them.
But, even if, the countries in the west have this trait, sometimes, they have good reasons to be so. It’s not that really don’t consider how others might feel but its something, they think, is a way for a bad situation or experienced not to be repeated again. And it’s the good side of being frank, because sometimes the very thing to stop an aggravation from others is to utter a very unpleasant word that would strike him to the bones just to stop it. Some say that people who don’t like frank ones are afraid to hear the reality.
A thing that contradicts most with the Filipinos. They always consider others’ emotions and yet always complain! In this situation the words frankness is needed but not in rude way! Remember that we could always say whatever we like without hurting another. We could always state our grievances in the nicest way we could. This world is full of situations beyond our control and people who are not always the same as we would like them to be. We could not always let them know how we are……that we are frank and we cannot always compel them to understand us. So keep in mind that whenever we want to say anything, express it in the most tactful way we could ‘cause it’s really the best way to create and maintain a harmonious relationship with others…….

I want to be a better person!!

I want to be a better person….
…One who doesn’t envy others’ success
But instead be inspired from them to do my best
…One who does not peak on others annoying traits
But instead check out my own self and make a change
…One who does not lift and boast myself too much
But instead be humble enough on all the achievements I’ve attained
…One who does think only of myself
But instead give much more than what I have to offer
…One who does not always have a negative vibe
But instead have cheerfulness and optimism to face life’s toughness
..One who does not waste time
But instead keeps productivity in my system
…One who does not look much on the dark side of my past
But instead have a joyous and positive outlook in my history
…One who does not always rely on others
But instead move ahead on my own
…One who is not ignorant
But instead be a person leads and stands up for my convictions
…One who does not think of my bad experiences as a battery of failures, pain and loss
But instead a source from which I could derive so much lesson to move forward
…One who does not indulge myself in a defective activity
But instead be a good citizen of our country

I want to be the person what God intended man to be…