Tuesday, February 24, 2009

KEEPING FRIENDS

1) The best way to have a friend is to be a friend.

2)You must develop a great deal of ACCEPTANCE & PATIENCE. You must accept people and not try to change them to suit you.

GOOD FRIENDSHIP develops out of certain amount of UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARDS.

REAL FRIENDSHIP has to be something that clicks between people. It can't be forced & doesn't work if it is one-sided.

You need to spend time and energy selecting and developing friends from those who are interested rather than lamenting the fact that some people with whom you'd like to be friendly doesn't seem to be interested..

-an excerpt from a book

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

the odds!!

well, I really am going through lots of self confusion..
I think there's something wrong with me..
Am I the person I know these past few days???
maybe I am not just used to these kinds of things..
all the life that i have ever known is having fun.. I really find comfort with my friends.. They play a really big role in my overall existence.. I find peace when I'm with them,. motivating me to push through and do everything coz I know they believed in me..
and now,, suddenly I'm experiencing this.. I know this has a reason.. to make me stronger,. but damn it,, I still am human, I also run tired of troubling things that keeps on going on..
I don't know if there's something wrong with me ... All I know is that I never intentionally did things that could hurt anybody...
and it hurts ..a lot of things hurt .. a lot of thoughts hurt ...
and lot of people ... uhh..
all I know is I'm hurting..